The Lovers – How to understand if it’s True Love or Not
Today I’d like to talk about one of the most pleasant and miraculous card in Tarot. The Lovers. The blessed union.
I would have put it in the Heroes of Tarot were it not for another energy of Choice this card brings. The Choice we have to make when faced with something ephemeral that feels real and the real where you do not want to belong. It is the time when against all odds one has to stay true to his or hers beliefs and feelings. Many battles are to be had because the Ultimate Love is desired by all and that Lady loves being battled for.
Soulmate Love and Choice are the joined meaning of the Lovers. The Ultimate Love and the changes it brings, changes that require choices.
I described the Ultimate Love here. The gist of it is that Love in essence is magic that happens between two souls and when that magic happens it is the most powerful. By-product of that union is a mighty powerful force that many call Kundalini.
Love changes lives forever as energies unite absorbing each other and forming Yin and Yung that is always in constant motion. As long as the energies are palatable for each other, as long as both are willing to give and take the union will continue. This is a base of how Love works on the energy level and why it is so powerful.
Returning to The Lovers. This is the card of Love, Love not only for one but for the love of all. When Love enters your heart, you start loving the World, the Universe; and the World, the Universe starts loving you back.
Practically you’ll notice that people are friendlier and not as annoying, you feel rejuvenated, more alive. There is luck on your side, things that were horrifying are getting done and you feel less fear. When Love enters you heart, your life starts making sense. On its own, separately. It is something that cannot be forced. Kundalini cannot be controlled and has the same energy that generated it. It is spreading through you giving a bit of love to everything you touch. Because of this phenomena it is possible to distinguish real Love from the Love that we Imagine (and we do it all the time).
Real Love makes your life, your mind, your plans, your wellbeing on this Earth better. You look better. You feel rejuvenated. There is sense of purpose and joy. You feel safe and out of safety your best creations come out.
If in doubt look around. How has my life changed since my loved one entered my life? Do I look worse or better? How often do I laugh? How is my depression? Is there a purpose in me? Is it a safe place where can I root myself? How is my environment looking? Is it friendly to me? Is the Universe giving me chances? Are better things happening in the lives of my loved ones?
Remember, Love is spreadable. It is like a smell, you cannot stop it. And when you smell of Love, its spreading everywhere bringing serenity. Almost like Tom Ford White Suede.
Sometimes Love requires Choice.
Good luck with that my sweet pumpkins. I wish your choice to be an easy one. Till soon. xxx