Love is the only answer or What is the essence of Love?

Love

The magical feeling we all crave, the ethereal sensation beyond words, the bright warm shiny something that gives us the ultimate high. 

What is Love? Love is as individual as the person feeling it and yet it is universal and understandable by all. Love can be physically felt, sang and played. It can be danced. It can be profoundly emotional. The effect of love is colossal and spreadable to others.  Love is the most spoken language and is the only answer.  

There are many types of love, but the one most actively sought is the soulmate love. The expectations on the amount of happiness this love can bring to the lucky ones who’d encounter it are of a mythical character.

 We expect the soulmate to dramatically change our lives for the better; personally, professionally, emotionally. 

 Some people say that you need to be whole to meet the right person, I say scrap that. You can be perfectly alright and wait for years, you can be a total mess and then the right one comes, lifts you off your knees and suddenly you are flying.

Love is unpredictable and comes when it pleases. Ready or Not.

You can be the most attractive chick on the block or the hottest guy in your building, your office, your town, and still you could be lonely. Being attractive helps to attract, but the nature of yourself could be such that you require a very particular thing, and that is when while surrounded by bikini clad models in Jacuzzis in Courchevel you suddenly start praying to God to send you something real, something that would touch your heart, something that’d make you kinder to everybody and most importantly to yourself. 

 Comforted, safe, unjudged, weak, strong, naïve, wise, accepted and noticed, touched, appreciated, respected, rejuvenated, sexy and sensual… All of this is love and for you love may mean something else, but you would still understand what I mean when I say I have butterflies in my stomach. I am lovesick.

Oh the sweet beginning, the delicious nectar of the Garden of Eve. The Sun is shining brightly in place of the heart, the delight is palpable and noticeable. “You’ve changed. You are different, serene, fresh, sexy. Are you in love?” People in love are on another planet altogether. They are so happy, they are invincible. The 2 of Cups and The Lovers kind of sensation. 

 Majestics acts were made for love, cities built and burnt. This kind of love makes heroes out of ordinary men. 

The first careful touches of her energy give him warmth that fills up the cave of a longing heart. Slowly she is spreading through his body, enveloping each cell, each hair and then he lives and breathes her energy. Energetically she creates a cocoon around him that acts as a shield for the outer and inner negative influences. Since she is Fire, he is on Fire. Her Fire is very hot but does not burn him, it inspires him, gives him wings to raise above himself and reach further. 

He gives her energy structure, in a way he too builds for her a cocoon of protection and safety, a place she can relax and be herself, a place where she is appreciated in the way she could never appreciate herself. He gives her a space where she can finally relax and start creating. 

He is shielding her from the outside reality whereas she is shielding him from himself. 

Together the energies unite in a shape of eternity, figure 8, a classical never ending movement of yin and yang. 

As long as the energies are palatable for each other, as long as both are willing to give and take, the sacred union keeps moving and as a result produces unique mighty powerful energy, the energy that has a will of its own. 

There are many names of that powerful force, one of them is Kundalini. 

Many scholars search for Kundalini doing regular exercises meditations, special preparation and, as I have heard from the lucky few enlightened, reach the stage of Awakening through suffering. Those are subjective experiences I collected through the years.

There is an easier way. I know that Kundalini is a naturally occurring phenomena and the key to it is Love. Physical love and mental love. Kundalini is a by-product of the sacred union. 

Why am I claiming that? Kundalini is sought after because of its transformative powers and nothing is as transformative as Love. 

Just check out what had been created for love and because of love!

So what is Love? Love is finally coming home and dancing to the music of the heart..